Everyone is always wondering how long does it take to remove a black magic curse or voodoo. One must first understand how black magic works and why its effects cause people to have undesired symptoms. Many people tend to confuse typical negative energy, empathy, negative thoughts, negative attachments such as entities, ghosts and ancestors, depression for black magic.

Black magic is when a person programs or performs spells on an object using dark spirits to infiltrate in to your auric field and bring you whatever is programmed on that object, the usual desire is to bring harm, negative intentions or to force things on you going against your free will. The effects can be immediate or gradual or never, depending on who the person that is both performing the act and receiving the evil.

Before planning to remove black magic one must first assess what exactly they are dealing with, feel free to contact me to get your free reading. When one is certain that black magic or a curse of some form exists immediate steps to remove such evil must be taken.

Many spiritual healers will use angels, energy and their own guides, as well as ancestors and sacrifices to remove these spells. Meditation and prayers are also very important in helping to remove this evil. Unfortunately removing black magic isn’t as easy as many think. Although home remedies and self help including meditation is helpful it may not be enough. For many centuries shamans, priests and spiritual healers have helped remove such evil from people.

Many people and psychic’s specifically have used black magic as pretext to scam people out of a lot money. These fakers charge thousands and make false promises that make most real spiritual healers look bad. I would recommend using reputable spiritual healers with experience and not someone that is looking to rip you off. This has created many skeptics and even forced governments to create laws to disallow psychic work all together. But through out history there have been many psychics that have done good work and even helped with detective work on many levels.  As with anything in life there will always be skeptics or people that don’t believe in the paranormal. There are many atheists out there and that is completely fine as I feel everyone should be allowed to use their own free will when it comes to their beliefs.

Typically removal of black magic requires the spiritual healer not only remove the evil that was placed but also raise the vibration of the aura and heal the chakra system completely.  You can learn more about the chakra system here. After such healing prayers and candle work  may be performed on your behalf for 90-120 days. The shift of energy begins to take place differently for everyone, some will react immediately and others will begin to experience things in the coming months. Think of spiritual healing as placing a fruit seed in the earth and as you water the earth the seed turns in to an edible fruit. Same with spiritual healing it is a gradual transformation that refreshes your aura (you can read about the aura here).

I offer black magic removal services here, feel free to ask me any questions on my services before ordering.

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I am sure you heard the term, spiritual healer, shaman, astrologer, priest, magician, witch and psychic. Every one of these works using the spiritual realm to obtain information, alter reality and perform healing.

Spirituality has been utilized since the time of creation, to perform miracles when most in need. Many would regularly visit spiritual leaders to obtain blessings for success, health, children, love and wealth. Kings regularly utilized magicians to obtain information about their enemies and interpret dreams.

Spiritual healers in the modern world have become the go to for removal of blockages, curses, voodoo, hexes and black magic. People depend on healers to succeed in school, win court cases, meet their soulmate and avoid accidents. Many spiritual healers are light workers who strictly work for the good of the world, and some will also delve in to the work of dark arts. Dark Arts, also called Dark Magic, refers to any type of occult work or magic that is used to cause harm, control, or even death to the victim. The Dark Arts are not all “evil”, just because it’s labeled “dark”. It can be used for the good as well.

Spiritual healers utilize their own energy, angels, ancestors, crystals, amulets and ancient rituals to perform healing work on their clients. It is important to choose the right healer and insure that they are reputable. Spiritual healers that use their own vibrational energy when performing healing will leave a small portion of their energy in your aura, this is common with everything including relationships and friendships. You want to work with someone that is not only trustworthy but also happy and full of life, so that the transfer of energy is beneficial to you.

Spiritual healers that spend countless hours in meditation, will have a higher vibrational energy, similar to the angels. This is why, they are able to shift energies with thoughts, and many gifted healers will also be able to see and move energy around with their eyes. When you hear about a great healer, usually the experience is shared by many because their vibrational energy is very high and radiates to others.

It is important to surround yourself with people that think positive, are naturally optimistic and love the world. Energy works in a sequence, whoever you are around, is where your energy will be. Going to healers who are low in vibration, not happy, or pessimistic miserable people by nature will only bring you harm. Make sure you pick a healer that uplifts your spirits and gives you a boost in your energy.

The universe was created in a way where it runs on energies and people’s intentions. Some people have the ability to shift things for the good or bad. When going to people with abilities such as healers or psychics, make sure they dont place their own intention on you, free will is important and should be respected by all. If you are seeking spiritual healing, feel free to contact me for a free consultation.

I decided to compile a list of questions that people have been asking me over the years that I felt were important to share with people who are interested in learning more about spirituality and spiritual healing. If there are any questions I miss, that you would like answered please contact me and I will add it.

1.  What is the difference between spiritual healers?  Every spiritual healer is unique in their own way. Some will be born with special abilities of intuition, have ability to see (clairvoyant), feel (clairsentient), hear (clairaudience) and do things that others cant. Then there are the healers that are taught by someone or self taught. When selecting a spiritual healer, I recommend finding out what they specialize in, as every healer will specialize in different areas such as curse removal, break ups,  relationships, finance, health, prosperity ect.. You must choose someone that has experience in the area you seek help in. Some spiritual healers will be able to see you in person, while others will do distance healing to perform their work. It is important to deal with someone that is reputable, to insure you are not being taken advantage of or bringing yourself even more harm.
2. What is the difference between psychics, shamans, astrologers , mediums and spiritual healers? This is a very common question that many ask, I like to put psychics and astrologers in to the same category as they are both known to be very intuitive and are able to predict the future using their intuition. Shamans and spiritual healers are also intuitive but are able to in many cases see and control energies beyond the common person as well as perform healings, exorcisms and open blockages . While mediums use their abilities to communicate with the people who passed from this life.
3. Are people really able to predict the future? Everything that occurs in this world, occurs in another dimension prior to happening here. This allows many to predict the future using intuition, angels, ancestors and guides. With that said, I strongly believe in free will, and the ability to change your future based on your decisions. I feel it is wrong for someone to “predict” something such as how many children, or if this is the right person to marry, these things should all be done without someone else’s intention. If a person has no blockages, they are able to achieve or do whatever they desire. Predictions limit a person’s ability to decide for themselves. As a spiritual healer, I refuse to put limitations on my clients. If you would like to check if you have any blockages please contact me.
4. Does performing spiritual healing on different clients affect you in any way? Yes, unfortunately being a spiritual healer means connecting to many energies, dealing with removal of dark forces, entities, spirits, ghosts, attachments and other dark evil creations, does cause me a lot of drainage. Being experienced and learning to release the negativity in to the universe is very important as many spiritual healers have died at an early age because they did not know how to properly release the negativity.
5. Do spiritual healers have ability to also bring harm to others or do they only do good?  An experienced energy worker, must know how to not only remove negativity and perform healing but also how it is done in the first place. In order to fix something that is broken, you must know how it was done and undo the damage done.
6.  Has anyone ever performed black magic on you? If so how did it feel and were you able to resolve it on your own? Yes, black magic affects are very real. They make you feel and think a certain way. Although everyone will experience an attack differently, being a healer who is sensitive to energies, the attacks feel a lot stronger then they would on someone who isn’t as sensitive. It took me a few weeks to resolve on my own and I was able to put protection to block further attacks from occurring.
7. My relationship fell apart and I want him/her back, what can I do? This is a very common question people ask, there are a number of things that can be done but it all depends on the situation. Few important things are, what is the reason for the separation, how long were you apart, when was the last time you spoke to that person. Normally a broken relationship can be fixed by reconnecting the spiritual cords of attachment but it all depends on the situation. Relationships are very complicated and if broken up for no fault of your own, due to black magic or interference from someone else, it is worth looking in to. Feel free to contact me for an evaluation.
8. I have been struggling my entire life, I can’t seem to get ahead. Will spiritual healing work for me?  Let me start by saying that this world was not created for suffering. Many people have spiritual blockages on them, that hold them back from reaching their full potential. Blockages can occur due to a past life time issues, those issues require spiritual healing or sometimes blockages occur due to something that was done in this lifetime. Since most people are oblivious to spiritual problems, they just keep trying to move ahead and failing until they eventually give up. Spiritual blockages such as chakra issues, low vibrational energy, low auric colors, jealousy from others or a curse will hold you back from reaching your full potential. Feel free to contact me for a free consultation if you are struggling in this area.
9. Does distant remote healing work? Why do you prefer it over direct visits? Yes, distant healing does work, there is no difference to me in doing the work remotely as my healing requires me to do the work in meditative state. I then use angels by connecting to the clients auric field to perform my healing. I prefer to do the work remotely as seeing clients directly does not allow me to go into meditative state without distractions. The feedback that I have received from clients over the years on remote healing has been outstanding.
10. Does giving money to the poor or donations to others in need, do anything for me?  Yes helping someone in need  will benefit you greatly. By giving someone who is struggling or is in need of your donation, you create positive angels around yourself that will return your donation to you at the right time. Look at some of the most successful people, they are always giving away their wealth and in return are gaining more wealth.
11. I always struggle with every relationship, I want to meet my soulmate and be happy again can you please recommend what I should do? It is important to check if you have any blockages in your heart chakra or if anything else is going on such a past life time issues, a curse, possible character issues that may require life coaching. Please contact me for a free analysis.
12. Can my pets such as a dog and cat be cursed with black magic? Yes, animals are able to be cursed just like human beings. They can get sick, have accidents or run away.
13. Do you recommend saging, if so why and how often? Yes, I strongly recommend saging on a weekly basis. Saging helps remove negativity, raise vibrations and bring positive peaceful energy in to your home or office. You can learn more about saging on my blog here. If regular sage is not available, you can use incense as well.
14. Is it dangerous to go to a psychic? Yes and no, psychics are not God, but many people will hear an answer and feel that it is set in stone. I am a believer in free will and like to see my clients make their own decisions. Intuitive predictions are just that, they are predictions but the choice should be left to the person. Many psychics will set an intention on their clients and it will limit your ability to succeed beyond their “prediction”. If someone tells you that you will have 2 children, and you have ability to have 3 or even 5, the limitation set by the psychic during the reading will have negative effects on your life.
15. I have been a good person my whole life, but yet I struggle with finances, luck, relationships. Why am I suffering so much? It is very painful to see good people suffering. It is true, many good people suffer in this world. There are many reasons, such as energy blockages, generational curses, karmic issues from your past life, and your current surroundings. I can do a free reading to see what your issue is, please contact me.
16. Does thinking negative bring me harm? Yes it does, have you ever heard “where your thoughts are, that is where you are?” You must work hard on thinking more positive, if you struggle on changing on your own, I offer life coaching sessions to help with such issues.
17. I want to know if charms, crystals, amulets really work? Yes they do, I have been programming crystals such as bracelets, necklaces and energy generators for a very long time and the response clients have given me have been outstanding. Every crystal is programmed for a specific person, the use of angels, the sun, ancestors and guides. I offer different types of crystals for every life situation or need. Remember the person programming, must be trustworthy as you don’t want to have something in your possession from a negative person with negative intentions. Use only reputable people when buying such things.
18. Why do I feel tired all the time and have no desire to do anything? This is a very common concern, with the advancement of technology, people are being less creative with their time, not moving around as much, being lazy and just “scrolling” their smartphones. Leading a healthy lifestyle is important. You have to start by eating healthy, exercising, having hobbies, reading, and spending more time outdoors. There are many spiritual reasons such as blockages that make people feel this way as well, feel free to contact me for an assessment.
19. I have always had dreams of achieving great things but it never worked out and I always give up on everything I start. Why is this happening to me? I have heard this from many clients over the years, when you get hyped up and excited about something, after a few days in to it you forget the feeling and the excitement dies down. This leads you to just give up and walk away from the idea. There are many spiritual blockages such as thoughts from entities that can hold a person back from achieving their goals. I can help remove the blockages for you, to open your path to success. In the meantime, next time you get an idea and are excited about it, write down your exact plan on paper, how you feel from it, what you will gain from it, put everything down. When you feel like giving up at a later time, you can read the paper and remember how great you felt just a few days prior.
20. I am having nightmares in my dreams, should I be worried? This is a very common misconception about dreams. Dreaming of something horrific, that almost wakes you up in panic, many times is considered “fear releasing” meaning the dream itself is clearing you from something potentially negative that was meant to happen but did not and was released in your dream instead. Many people are naturally always thinking negative about anything they dream, this is not the proper way to interpret your dreams. If you are an existing client, I can help explain your dream for you. Keep an eye out for dreams at 3-5am, as those are the important ones that are usually prophetic in nature.
21. I feel unhappy in my life, I have tried therapy, healers, psychics and many other things but I am just depressed. Can you help me understand why? There is no simple answer for this, I can check if you have spiritual blockages, chakra & aura balancing issues or karmic problems. From my experience in dealing with clients with such issues, many set their expectations very high, are envious of others, always feeling they are missing or entitled to something and not living the moment. It is important to make best of what you have and work on a plan to improve your situation. I offer life coaching sessions and can greatly help you assess the problem and build a plan to improve every area of your life.
22. I am surrounded by negative friends and family members, is this a problem? Yes it sure is, people who are pessimistic and are constantly thinking negative will take everyone down with them. Think of this scenario, if you put a person in a jail cell without any tattoos, but everyone there has a tattoo. How long before this person who has never had one ends up with a tattoo? This is the way life works, whoever you are surrounded by, will have a negative or positive impact on your life.
23. I am struggling to gain or lose weight, what am I doing wrong? This is a very broad question, with no simple answer. My recommendation is to get your doctor to assess you for any health issues, use a nutritionist to analyze your eating habits, and get a personal trainer to properly help you exercise. Being surrounded by someone who spends a lot of time exercising, dieting and has experience with it, is very helpful. It is not a simple thing to accomplish, think of your body as something that gets used to a routine and expects a certain portion of food daily. To transform that into something else that you desire will take a huge commitment, and a lot of sacrifices on your part. As the saying goes, if there is a will, there is a way.
24. Is there such a thing as being attacked by black magic non stop? Yes, but the common misconception between black magic and empathy does exist. Empathic spiritual cords can cause you to feel another person’s energy,  this person who is angry with you, and sending out negative thoughts, will make it feel similar to black magic. It is good to get an assessment from a spiritual healer on this.
25. Does Karma really exist? Will I pay a price for doing bad things? Yes, it sure does, we will pay a price for everything. Hurting another person, stealing, torture, or anything that you feel is wrong in nature, you shall pay a price for in this life or the next. Notice there are many people who suffer and did nothing wrong in this lifetime, but their suffering never ends. This is a clear reflection of karmic punishment. As with everything, this is not always the case and some issues are soul journey or curse related.
26. How do I know if someone is my soulmate or twin flame? This will require a spiritual healer to check, we come in to this world with a few soulmate’s. You can fall in love multiple times on your journey and many people can be used to help you get there. You will definitely feel a stronger connection or bond to certain people over others, thus validating the connection to that person as being your soulmate or in your soul group.
27. My relationship is nothing but pain, we fight non stop but can’t be apart, what should I do? This is a worldwide problem that many deal with. Fear of cutting your losses, moving on, being alone or change will hold you hostage in a toxic or even abusive relationship. You can try counseling, spiritual healing, and time apart. Sometimes it’s better to move on and start fresh, then to struggle and suffer through a painful relationship. Short term pain without the person, can bring long term benefits and diminished amounts of stress. You can read more about this on my blog.
28. I am recovering from a painful break up or divorce, do you have any advice? The first step to take is to work with a spiritual healer to cut the cord of attachment to that person. After that is done, I recommend to fully cut all ties, communication, remove any memories such as pictures and gifts. It is recommended to seek the help of a therapist or a life coach to help you rebuild your life. Rushing in to another relationship isn’t always the answer, take your time to heal and work on yourself.
29. I feel like my home has a ghost or spirit living in it, what should I do? Typically this is a job for a spiritual healer, I have seen many ghosts and spirits living inside homes. They are very real and active, it is important to remove such energies as they can be life threatening. I do home and business clearing and blessing rituals for such occurrences.
30. Can social media be used to send me negative energies? Yes, spirituality has no limitations. Communication such as text messages, phone, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, TikTok, Snap and others will trigger a transfer of energy, both good and bad. If you have someone who you don’t want any connection with, it is important to block them on all channels.
31. Is it possible to break vicious cycle of struggle? Depending on the specific situation, the universe does allow the opportunity to end anything that exists. For every problem there is always a solution, just like for every cause there is an affect. We must have faith, look for solutions, and never give up on our battle to a better life.  The only limitations are the ones set by us, and our past failures. Previous disappointments will also affect our future choices. The universe does allow for healing to take place no matter what the situation. The person must believe in the healing and recovery as well as have proper people working on it, in order to achieve the desired goal. There is a famous story, where towns people went to a holy person asking for rain during a drought. He instructed them to go in to the open field and pray to God for rain. Upon doing so they returned to the holy man and said, “we went and prayed, begged and screamed but nothing happened”. The holy man asked “did you bring umbrellas with you?” They said no, his answer to them was, “if you believed that it would rain in your heart, you would of brought umbrellas”. The moral of the story is, people say they believe in something but they must really believe it in their heart and soul in order to achieve it and create miracles.
32. What is the best protection from black magic? This is a great question, after black magic is removed, many people want to be protected and make sure that it does not happen again. I would recommend a few things, keep your mood very positive, be optimistic, think positive, your defenses against black magic will be much better when you are in a good mood. I offer spiritual protection services that can be done monthly or as needed. I can also program a black magic protection generator you can keep near you as well as a  necklace or bracelet you can wear for protection against black magic and all curses.
33. How do you remove a demon from your body? This is the hardest job to perform for a spiritual healer or shaman that is trained in such work. Exorcism, sacrifices, prayer, cleansing and angel work must be performed and the practitioner must fast for twenty four hours before doing such work. I would normally asses exactly the type of possession taking place and then work with the persons guides and ancestors to perform an extraction or exorcism to free them from the demonic possession.
34. How often should I meditate and what should focus on when doing it? Meditation is very important, it helps restore your energy field and raise your vibrations. I would recommend meditating 3 times a day, spread it out upon waking in the morning, midday and evening before going to sleep. When you first begin meditating, you can just let the mind take you to where it wants to go, after a few weeks of doing it you can begin to focus on specific areas of your life, future growth and transformation.
35. How long does it take to remove black magic? Typically black magic removal is done within 21 days, there are cases that do require extra work and can take as long as 90 days. You can learn more about removal on my blog.
36. The crystals you program, can they be  programmed in secret for someone that wouldn’t know what its for or is skeptical of such work? Yes, the crystal programming can be done for anyone. The person its being programmed for does not need to be made aware. Being skeptical will not change or hinder the programming and its ability to invite miracles.
37. Why do bad things happen to good people?  This is a very broad question, even though it does feel like bad things often happen to good people, this is not the case. Both good and bad can occur to anyone, no one is spared from the dangers of life. Having spiritual protection, protective crystals and a balanced chakra system is very helpful to avoiding the bad.
38. How are you able to program crystals for people when those crystals aren’t always their birth-crystals, according to any system of astrology? Programming crystals are different from astrology and birthstones in general, the programming I do, can be done on any crystal to radiate positive energy to the person its programmed to.
39. Can my child or children get cursed with black magic? Yes, from my experience most parents that get cursed will end up having entire family suffer. I have seen children get black magic placed on them just to spite the parents.
40. I get a headache, feel anxious and get angry every time I am around a certain person, what does this mean?  They are draining your light, your aura is being drained. This is also a sign of jealousy. I recommend to stay away from such people and do a cord cutting session.
41. I had a fight with my best friend and now I feel like my life is turning upside down, what is happening to me? There are a number of things that are going wrong, for one negative thoughts are transferring telepathically and in same time cord of attachment is sending energy back and forth empathically. Entities are being created on both ends and causing negative vibrations for both of you. It is important to do a healing session to fix the relationship, or cut cord of attachment completely.
42. There is a full moon out, what do you recommend I do? If you can, make a wish when you see a full moon. The energy is heightened during full moon and the light of it radiates blessings.

What does it mean to be empathic?

Empathy is the concept of the transfer of energy telepathically from one person to another. Empathy transpires using strong telepathic channels and/ or cords of attachments. Empathy allows you to feel the emotions and thoughts of another person. Empathy can make a person feel things randomly within their body that they normally would not feel under similar circumstance. Empathic attacks can have physiological symptoms such as:  physical internal pains , ailments,  drastic changes of temperatures in the body, sudden heartburn, and feelings of nausea. Empathic attacks can also bring about emotional symptoms such as: feeling bursts of anger, excessive stress for no reason, anxiety, and increase in hyperactivity. Empathy doesn’t only transfer bad energy but can also transfer good energy from one person to another.

Many empathic people are able to sense what their loved ones or close friends are thinking before the person reveals it to them. For example, an empathic person can sense that their friend is going to text or call them regarding a specific problem they are having. They can know what their friend was going to share with them before the friend even made any contact. Although powerful, empathy can feel very draining and overwhelming for people who have no power or do not know yet how to control it. An empathic transfer of energy can make the receiver do things they wouldn’t normally do, such as argue, fight, or show signs of anger towards others without prior cause for confrontation, causing an internal battle within the person’s own body. This can also be described as having two different personalities within one body. Empathic people often struggle when being attacked by energy vampires. Energy vampires describes those individuals who practice deep thinking and obsess over someone sending them constant bad energy, hence sucking the life out of the person being targeted weather they know they are doing it or not.

How does empathy work?

Empathy transfers energy using cords of attachments instantaneously  allowing a person to feel different things at that exact moment. The transfer of energy can occur through different portals of a person’s body and/ or energetic Chakras. Where the energy attack are being felt on a person or how it makes the person react or feel depends on the sender of the energy and their connection to the receiver. In most cases, the transfer of energies occurs with people who the person has a strong connection or bond with such as a family member, a past or current lover, or a close friend. The person sending the energy is often one who had spend a lot of time with receiver and had developed a strong energetic connection to them.  One belief is that empathy is existent as a tool to help control people from making decisions such as walking away from life situations and relationships without facing adequate consequences. As you may see in your own daily life, very often people walk away from problematic relationships or complicated friendships thinking they can just escape their problems, not realizing that the cords of attachments they forged along the way and the energy connecting them to person and/ or situation still exists.

Most people cannot differentiate between their own feelings/ emotions or physiological pains and those of the person who is attacking them energetically. In cases where the energetic attacks are happening on a regular basis the receiver can adapt to the attacks and accept it as part of their well being. Experiencing moments such as struggling with emotional regulation, anxiety, and feelings of unexplained depression can all be signs of an empathic attack taking place at that very moment. The attacks can be momentary or last as long as hours or even days depending on the sender’s motive and energetic powers.

How it affects our daily lives and people around us?

One important distinction to make when contemplating whether an empathic attack is occurring is understanding the difference between emphatic attacked and black magic curses.  Where Black magic takes place abruptly in forms of “accidents” such as car crashes, tripping over something or injuring yourself badly, an empathic attack presents itself in a more natural way with physiological symptoms such as headaches, body aches, emotional drain, anxiety and stress (to inquire more information about Black magic removal services please feel free to contact me for a free consultation). Empathic attacks also present themselves in forms of jealousy and hatred towards someone or something the person has no prior negative feelings towards.  People with strong empathic capabilities can be intense to a point where they obsessively loop with intensive destructive thoughts and behavior that can end up destroying a person’s life.

How to protect ourselves and prevent empathic draining?

The first step in protecting yourself from empathic attacks is trying pinpoint who the sender of the energy might be and what brought about the negative thoughts towards you. Some reasons why someone might be sending you empathic energy might be:

• – Date of an important anniversary from a past relationship
• – Person experiencing feeling of regret or guilt following a relationship ending
• – Birthday or important life event where you used to be part of but no longer are
• – A person strongly missing another person who is no longer in their life
• – Family member experiencing some sort of trauma or illness and subconsciously sending negative energy to other family members
• – Employer or co-worker having negative thoughts about you due to jealousy, resentment or hatred

There can be many other reasons why someone might be sending you negative energy via an empathic attack.  A good practice following an attack is to write down how you feel when you are not under attack so you can differentiate when you are yourself verses when you are under attack and feel like you are possessing someone else’s energy. There are many forms of meditation that can help you protect yourself against empathic attacks (Please contact me to inquire more information about this topic and receive a 10 minute free consultation) . Placing a pillow or a large thick object to cover the area of your body being attacked while it’s occurring can sometimes help decrease the intensity of the symptoms. Programed Crystals can also be used to protect the person from empathic attacks. To assure your Auric field and Chakras are fully balanced and vibrating properly a spiritual healer is recommended to assess where the energy is coming from and how to properly stop it by cutting the cords of attachments as well as providing energy healing services. I offer fully programed bracelets and necklaces with crystals that  are used to protect the person wearing it from being a victim of an empathic attack.

Most healthy relationships begins with two individuals who find fondness in each other and form some sort of bond or connection over a shared interest and/ or common life goal. These individuals will then grow to enjoy each other’s company and develop a bond. Many firsts will come along, such as first touch, first kiss and first date. During the initial stage of a relationship is where couples share their interests and explore together.

The relationship then grows as the couple begins to get comfortable with one another. Going on trips together, sharing a bed, allowing oneself to be vulnerable in front of the other person and meeting important people in the other person’s life (such as family members and close friends). Relationships also turn into life time commitments that people make to one another when buying homes together, getting married and ultimately having children together. Those are all the steps and the making of a growing relationship. As the couple in the relationship invest more time and emotion into their relationship they strengthen their spiritual cords and become inseparable. People often get too comfortable with someone and forget how life was before that person came into their lives. Even a few months can have an everlasting effect on someone due to the time invested into the relationship.

For this reason the universe disabled humans ability from remembering their previous incarnation (past lives) that includes past relationships. Relationships often stay stuck in our chakras and auras and there is a cord of attachment that binds the two souls together for eternity.

Unfortunately many relationships come to an end. There can be many reasons why a relationship would end. Some relationships end on good terms, some not. People sometimes discover later on in life that the life path they have chosen for themselves no longer makes them happy,  they discover that their significant other is cheating on them, or they simply don’t want to live with the person they married anymore. Every situation is different and every person’s heartache following a breakup or a separation is going to differ.  Either way, there is always baggage that follows a person when they end a relationship.

So why is it so hard for some people to move on following a breakup or a loss of someone they loved? There are many reasons why. Environmental triggers is one of the reasons. Something as  simple as a smell of a familiar perfume, or the sight of favorite restaurant that was a frequent venue for date night can bring feelings of pain, regret, resentment, and nostalgia. Perhaps during your past relationship going to the movies was a passion you shared with your ex and now you can’t bring yourself to step a foot in a movie theatre because of all the memories that took place there.

Another reason why it is so hard to move on following a breakup or a loss could be attending life events that represented or would have taken place in your relationship such as weddings, the birth of a new baby, an engagement of a family member or a close friend. More often than not, seeing a loved one go through a changing life event that you struggled to get to in your own relationship triggers a lot of negative emotions and feelings towards the person you had the relationship with, hence making it hard for you to get over the relationship.

Sometimes it is people around you that make it hard for you to forget or get over a relationship. Perhaps you were dating a person who came highly recommended by a family member or a close friend. If the relationship fails after a period of time, the person or people who initiated the relationship are likely to bring it up everytime they see you to try to change your mind and maybe pressure you into giving the person a second chance. Perhaps your close family friends have a child who they always thought you are destined to get married to in order to form a bond between two families, yet your relationship failed and you are now stuck with handling the drama that follows every time you are in contact with anyone from your family.

The feeling of  comfort and belonging is perhaps the biggest cause of pain following a relationship breakup. Especially when the couple in the relationship become codependent on each other. The sense of coming home to a familiar routine, a familiar person and a familiar home gives a person a sense of comfort. Leaving your comfort zone is very hard and often leads to couples toughing it out from the fear of change. Learning to live life without your partner can be tough and emotionally draining. Perhaps your partner was responsible for all household chores or handling all the finances in the relationship. Having that fear of “what now?” can have a huge emotional drainage on a person following a breakup and can make getting over the person very hard. People contemplate at that point if leaving the person was the right thing to do, as the saying goes “distance makes the heart go fonder”.

These are just a few of the reasons as to why it is so hard for some people to recover from breakups and losses in relationships. When it comes to a point where you cannot get over your past relationship and you dwell on the past for a prolonged period of time, your intense feelings can turn into an obsession. At that point you need a lot of guidance and support to get your life back on track and cut or heal your cord of attachment from your painful breakup in order to set a path for you to be able to form new healthy relationships with no emotional baggage from previous relationships.

So how can I help you? I can help you cut your cords of attachments and heal your auric field from all negativity that any previous relationship has left on you. With my guidance and life coaching services I can bring you back to a life filled with hope and success with any future relationships.  I will be with you every step of the way and I will ensure you reach your full potential.

We all have our fair share of negative people in our lives, our friends, family members, co workers, neighbors, kids, spouses, and romantic partners. Sometimes we can avoid these people and sometimes we are unfortunately stuck with them. It is a known fact that whoever you are surrounded by has a very big impact on your daily life. This is not only true physically it is also true on an energetic and spiritual level as well.

People who surround themselves with millionaires for example tend to eventually attract wealth and same goes for someone who is around a thief or a criminal the end result will be their traits and ideas transferring on to you in both positive and negative ways. This is why it is truly important to make very wise decisions as to who you associate yourself with and what type of environment you are surrounding yourself with.

It is easy to be negative and the vast majority of society chooses to just be down, dread life, complain, be miserable and blame everyone else for their short comings. When coming in contact with such a person the low vibration in their auric field (aura is the energy that surrounds our body and protects us)  is enough to wipe out all your positive energy in minutes.  This is why its very important to be protected against energy vampires who will suck all the positive energy out of you within minutes without you knowing what hit you the rest of your day, week or even month and cause you to make terrible decisions and not even knowing why.

Lets face it, we cant control negative people or change them but we can change ourselves to be protected, and for our own energy to attract only the highest vibration of people who don’t drain us in any way. Energy is known to attract to itself similar energy that it gives out. For example if you are a giving, kindhearted, loving individual you will attract friends to yourself with very similar traits. There are of-course exceptions to this rule as with anything but for the most part most people will attract to themselves who they are because our aura vibrates at a certain energy and we attract to ourselves that same vibration of energy.

There are many toxic relationships where one person is amazing but the other is just the opposite, don’t think for a moment that the universe made a mistake, just because the relationship exists it doesn’t mean its meant to be. Many times there is one individual in the toxic relationship that has no idea how to be without the other person so they will put up with negativity for decades if they have to instead of leaving that person and starting fresh.

If you are surrounded by negative people and don’t know what to do about it, I strongly recommend the following few things:

1. Daily meditation at least 3 times a day.  Specifically one that protects your aura, feel free to contact me for assistance. 
2. Speak to a spiritual healer to make sure your aura has healthy colors. I offer spiritual healing for the aura here: Aura Healing
3. Don’t try to change the other person but instead change yourself.
4. If you are in a relationship and your partner is negative to the point that it is effecting your life, I strongly recommend counseling for that person and if they refuse you must have the strength to leave them. 
5. Don’t be judgmental of their every move, try and concentrate on yourself and your own life instead. 
6. If the people in your life who are negative are not immediate family, work on a plan to distance yourself from these people.
7. Be positive, optimistic regardless of who is around you, by doing so you will raise the energy not only for yourself but everyone around you also.

We have a choice, a free will to be around someone or not to be around someone, it is our decision of who when or how we do things. Always remember to use your free will and not be forced to do anything you are not comfortable with.

Uriel